Same Soil, Different Seeds…

What Makes People Tick?

A Little Chat About Vibes, Wiring, and the Ones Who Just Don’t Get It…

Have you ever looked at someone, maybe someone in your own family, and wondered, what on earth makes them tick? I’ve been thinking about it lately.

Why do some people move through the world with a sense of kindness, curiosity, and a bit of spark in their soul… while others seem hellbent on greed, control, or plain old disconnection? Why are some of us drawn to truth and connection, while others are content to live shallow, miserable little lives built on what they can take from others?

Is it upbringing? Is it trauma? Is it just plain old bad wiring? Or is it something deeper, like the vibration a soul carries?

It’s All Energy, Isn’t It?

If you believe (like I do) that everything is energy, then people are no different. Every thought, emotion, and action carries a frequency. Some souls arrive here vibrating high, they feel deeply, love easily, and instinctively want to make the world a bit lighter. Others? Well, let’s just say they’ve settled in at a much lower frequency. Fear, ego, control, manipulation, all the fun stuff.

And the thing is, you can have two people raised in the same house, eating the same dinners, with the same opportunities… and one grows up kind and thoughtful, while the other turns cold and cruel. Same soil, different seeds.

So is it wiring? Maybe. Is it trauma? Sure. Is it their soul’s chosen vibration in this lifetime? I think so.

Can People Change Their Frequency?

I believe we can. I think that’s one of the reasons we’re here. Every time we choose truth over comfort, compassion over judgment, or courage over fear, we raise our vibration a little. Every time we heal a wound, speak up for ourselves, or walk away from people who drain the life out of us, we inch a bit closer to who we were meant to be.

Here’s the hard truth: not everyone wants to shift. Some people like the frequency they’re on. Even if it’s bitter, petty, and miserable… It’s what they know. They’re comfortable in it. They’ve built an identity around it. And they’ll fight to stay there because rising would mean doing the work, and not everyone’s brave enough for that.

You Can’t Drag People Up the Ladder

Not every soul is here to wake up in this lifetime. Some people came here to learn the hard way, or maybe to learn nothing at all. And you know what? That’s not your burden to carry.

Your job is to notice the ones who lift you and the ones who leave you heavy. Pay attention to who inspires you to be a better, braver, freer version of yourself, and who keeps you small, afraid, and doubting your gut.

Choose accordingly.


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6 responses to “Same Soil, Different Seeds…”

  1. Another excellent post M.
    HBD ‘again’ 📧.
    First and foremost, thank you for being unapologetically you.
    Thanks for recently taking the time to come round, like what you like, and popping your/my comment cherry with me.

    I’m appreciative, because I’ve been around, and I see that people have become very one-sided; a selfishness, which is now even shown in the lack of interaction on the posts of others.
    I’m glad you are not one of those.😇

    I’m a great believer that the God-given energy (spirit) we are given, does resonate through us all, but, I use the term wiring also, and that wiring is just off, broken and damaged, in certain individuals.
    I’m grateful to have the emotionally secure wife I have, she knew me before we got together and understands what I’m about to share now, as she was also ‘positively affected’.😉
    I’m an individual who is drawn to the open and the honest, and they are ‘usually’ drawn to me.
    For me, having the ability to speak openly to both males and females, is a real emotional and mental turn-on for me.
    I’m just wired to seek a meeting of minds and emotions with ‘certain’ people, the other types…not so much.
    It just so happens that women are (typically) more secure and confident in themselves, to form a deep and meaningful connection, and sadly, ‘most’ men are not.
    I don’t have to say this to you, as I think you’ve examined me enough (if you’ve directly visited my website) to understand that it’s not a sexual thing for me.
    However, admittedly, in the past, it has resulted in some individuals, declaring a desire for more from me…I’ll leave that there.

    In answer to one of your questions, I do think that people have the capacity to change, but only if it’s written in their unique-to-self book of life, to do so.
    Many are sadly, programmed to be envious, secretive, selective with truth (aka liars), greedy, selfish, and just plain haters.

    I’m glad you’ve not allowed yourself to let the negativity of others, turn you cynical and sour.
    Then again, being planted in the same soil, and being similar seeds, it’s not in our books, to be adversely affected.

    I keep saying it, if we all just positively treat others, the way we want to be treated (following that divine God-given principle) the world would be a better place.
    I refuse to let the insecure, the jealous, the bunny boilers, the sexist, the xenophobic, or any other hater, manipulate me into shutting up and not reaching out, to other like-minded souls.
    Of which, you are most definitely one.

    Thanks for sharing.

    Much love. xx
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    1. Ah, what a message! You know, it’s rare these days to find someone who actually gets it without twisting it into something it’s not. So thank you, not just for the kind words, but for showing up real, unapologetic, and wired the way you are.

      I completely understand you on the state of interaction out there. It’s like some folks treat the community like a vending machine, only showing up when they want something for themselves. We need to connect and be our true selves. If you vibe with someone, you show up, you support, you lift each other up, and you have the decency to be honest about where you stand.
      And yes, it’s no surprise you find yourself drawn to the open and honest, because we’re a rare and slightly rebellious breed.

      As for change, you’re spot on, it’s written in the book or it’s not. Some people choose to stay stuck in envy and half-truths, and others evolve because they’ve seen too much, felt too deep, and refuse to carry that same darkness.

      I’m grateful for people like you out here, standing your ground, reaching out, and refusing to be silenced. Keep being exactly who you are. The world might be loud with noise, but the real ones recognize each other through the static.

      Appreciate you. Always.
      Mae 🧡🧡🧡

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  2. Bookmark quotes:

    “Every time we choose truth over comfort, compassion over judgment, or courage over fear, we raise our vibration a little.”

    “Pay attention to who inspires you to be a better, braver, freer version of yourself, and who keeps you small, afraid, and doubting your gut.”

    Well, posts like these are certainly great inspiration. Thanks.

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    1. Thank you 🧡

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  3. Very wise words, once again. Who we surround ourselves with IS a choice. It’s worth taking an honest look around to see where we are.

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    1. Thank you, Sandy. And you’re so right. Who we allow into our circle shapes our peace, our mindset, and our energy. It takes courage sometimes to stop, look around, and admit when certain people or situations no longer deserve a seat at the table. But it’s one of the healthiest things we can do for ourselves. Appreciate you taking the time to say that.
      Mae 🧡

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