Where Did We Go?…

What Has Happened to Humanity?

Sometimes I just sit and wonder… what the hell happened to us?

We were once tribal, weren’t we? Rooted in the land, in each other. We lived by firelight and instinct. We shared food, stories, and silence. We knew how to sit with things, pain, joy, and mystery. Now? Most people can’t sit still for five minutes without reaching for a screen. We’ve forgotten how to just be.

We’ve traded something ancient and real for something shiny and hollow.

We’ve been programmed, and I don’t use that word lightly. Programmed to believe our worth is measured in numbers: followers, steps, bank balances. Programmed to fear stillness, to chase distraction. Programmed to doubt ourselves so we’ll keep looking out there for the answers.

We call it modern life, but if you strip back the polish, it starts to look more like survival with a smile.

We’ve disconnected from the land. From nature. From each other. But the worst part is the disconnection from within, from our own inner knowing. That part of us that knows when something’s off, that feels when something is wrong in the world, that remembers a different way of being.

But we’re taught to silence that voice. Taught its woo-woo. Irrational. Weak. And so, we stuff it down and keep going, productive, distracted, and disconnected.

Meanwhile, our bodies are carrying trauma. Our children are anxious. Our elders are forgotten. People are starving, not just for food, but for some kind of meaning. For gentleness. For belonging. For something real.

And we wonder why we’re all burnt out and breaking down?

It’s not just personal. It’s systemic. This society, this culture of rush and reward, doesn’t care if we’re well. It cares if we’re useful. If we’re compliant. If we stay quiet and keep on performing.

But deep down, something in us remembers.

Even if we’ve never lived it, there’s this ache, this homesickness for a kind of wholeness we can’t quite name. Something in us still knows how to tend a fire. How to honor our grief. How to live in rhythm with the seasons, not against them. How to be still. How to be enough.

So yeah. I ask myself: what happened to humanity?

But more and more, I’m asking: what could happen if we found our way back?

Back to truth. Back to connection. Back to the sacred, not as a religion, but as a way of being. A way of remembering that we are part of this earth, not owners of it. That we belong to each other. That we’re not machines. We’re messy, magical, mortal beings trying to find our way.

And I think we can find our way. Not all at once. Not by fixing it all. But by feeling again. By slowing down. By choosing presence over performance, meaning over metrics, soul over system.

That’s the revolution I’m interested in.

Quiet. Unapologetic. From the inside out.

Mae 🧡


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22 responses to “Where Did We Go?…”

  1. Great post, Mae.

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      Joey Jones

      Good isn’t she?

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      1. Haha, Joey, thank you! That made my day. I’m just doing my thing and glad it resonates! 😊
        🧡

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        Joey Jones

        It does? Mae x

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      3. Yes, she is.

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    2. Thanks so much, Mags xxx I appreciate you taking the time to read and share your thoughts. Means a lot! 🧡

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  2. I can’t help feeling that something is going to have to snap in order to change direction. And I fear it’s going to hurt…

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    1. I know that feeling too well Tony… It’s like we’re all walking a tightrope, and sometimes the only way forward is when something gives. But maybe, just maybe, the snap opens a crack wide enough for the light to get in. Still, yeah… change rarely comes without some kind of pain. 🧡

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  3. As a society, I’m not sure the world is ready to rediscover our humanity. To paraphrase Tony’s comment, we may need to have a shift of consciousness and that shift might be painful, before we are ready.

    As individuals, some of us are trying to rewild ourselves. It’s a slow process, and no one can be forced to rewild themselves. But maybe there is a critical mass where things begin to pivot.

    I certainly don’t know, but that doesn’t stop me. Thanks Mae 💙

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    1. I don’t know either Michael, but that’s never stopped me either. I love what you said about rewilding. It’s such a powerful word… like returning to something ancient in us that was never really gone, just buried. And yeah, I think that pivot comes when enough people remember. Painful or not, I’d rather be part of that shift than asleep at the wheel. 🧡

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      1. You and I both. 🙂

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  4. I couldn’t agree more. This is a global phenomenon indeed and very alarming. Like you, I try to do my part. Thank you for another thought-provoking and thoughtful post.

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    1. Thank you. It really is global, and sometimes it feels overwhelming—but knowing others are out there doing their part too makes it feel a bit less heavy. Grateful for your words and your presence here 🧡

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  5. I spent 8 years working for a fintech company. When they gave my job to AI, I entered 8 months of depression and anxiety. When I finally came out of my cave and found other jobs, I felt physically and mentally sick every time I had to sit in front of a PC and a phone, and look at numbers on a screen. My brain rejected adhering to “performance statistics” at these other jobs, and I did not flourish. It feels impossible to find employment that doesn’t make me work with a computer. But I am finding my way, and I am better now. Growing up in the 90s, I am alarmed and appalled at how tech keeps expanding to replace humanity. There has to be a limit. Thank you for this article. It shows that I am not the only one with this sentiment.

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing this. I feel it. That kind of grief, the loss of purpose, the disconnection from our own rhythm, so few talk about it, but it’s real. And I hear you on the rejection of all things screen-bound… It’s like the soul says ‘No more.’ I’m so glad you’re finding your way back. You are definitely not alone in this. The more we speak it, the more real it becomes, for all of us 🧡

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      1. Thank you for your kind words Mae 🙏

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      2. You’re so welcome. Sending warmth your way 🧡

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  6. Things will keep moving forward, I’m afraid, until some big disaster happens. Isn’t that how all civilizations end?

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    1. Sadly, that does seem to be the pattern, doesn’t it? Growth, excess, collapse… then a new version rises from the ashes. Maybe the real question is: will we learn this time, or just reboot the same script? 🧡

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  7. Thank you for sharing these thoughts.
    We are still tribal, just belonging now to a different kind of tribe. One that dries apart, connected by wires, but not by warmth. We’ve traded closeness for convenience, and somehow, we forget the magic of love, touch and true feeling. But eventually through the wires, we can still choose, empathy, kindness and true connection. We can do it, there is still time!

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    1. Beautifully said, Carla. I agree, completely. We are still tribal, just a little lost in the static. But that deep need for connection, for real warmth and human magic, hasn’t gone anywhere. We just have to remember that it’s still possible… and still worth it. 🧡

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