Conversations with the Dead and Other Time Thieves…

Daily Writing prompt: Which activities make you lose track of time?

Now that’s a good question! Though, as usual with me, there’s never a straight answer. 😂 It depends on the day, the mood, and what sort of nonsense the universe has decided to fling my way.

Some days it’s overthinking, and before you know it, it’s 2am, the tea’s gone cold, and I’ve had a full-blown argument in my head with someone I haven’t laid eyes on in ten years. Other days it’s reading, writing, researching obscure things no one asked me about, or getting lost down one of those random rabbit holes where you start off googling “symptoms of magnesium deficiency” and somehow end up reading about haunted lighthouses in Nova Scotia.

Painting used to rob hours off me without apology, and I let it! Total time thief, but in the best way. It was my bolt-hole, my escape hatch, my “do not disturb” sign to the world when things got rough. I haven’t picked up a brush in ages (not that I’m sitting around twiddling my thumbs, mind you 😂), but I do miss it. It was therapy without the invoice, and I think it’s about time I found my way back.

And of course, there are those times when I’m talking to the ancestors. Not everyone’s cup of tea, but once you start listening, they never bloody stop. They’ve an opinion on everything, and time means nothing to them. You look up and it’s dark outside, Heff is glaring at you, and you’ve had a full afternoon’s worth of unsolicited ancestral advice about land disputes, the medicinal properties of nettles, and how Granny Frass wouldn’t have put up with half the carry-on you tolerate.

Funny thing is, those are the moments where time just disappears, when you’re doing something that stirs your soul, makes you laugh, or scratches that itch in your brain. It’s not always ‘productive’, but it’s always worthwhile.


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12 responses to “Conversations with the Dead and Other Time Thieves…”

  1. “It was therapy without the invoice…”

    I agree 👍 💯

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    1. Right? The best kind, no clock ticking, no polite nodding, just you, your thoughts, and maybe a cuppa (or a rant into the void). 😄 Glad it resonated! 🧡

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  2. I should lend you mine. They sometimes just sit there for a spell saying nothing at all, but looking like they might have something to say… and then they slap their knees, get up, and wander away.

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    1. Oh, I love that. The quiet, knee-slapping wander-off, classic ancestor move. 😄

      Mine tend to barge in with opinions, throw a few riddles around, and then disappear just as I’m about to ask a decent follow-up. Maybe yours are the strong, silent type… or just messing with you for the craic. Either way, I’d happily borrow a few for the variety!

      Thanks for the grin, that painted a picture. 🧡

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      1. I get the other type (barge in, riddle, throw out a few potentially insulting comments) from Raven. Raven minces almost no words and usually makes me do all the hard work.

        I wouldn’t be surprised in the ancestors mess around with me just on a lark, as you suggest. Their sense of humor is very, very dry, but that is something I can get behind. I prefer it, in fact, over some of the day-to-day humor I encounter. It’s usually educational or just plain amusing.

        💙

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      2. Love this, Michael! Sounds like Raven has you in spiritual boot camp, riddles, tough love, and a side of ancestral mischief for seasoning. Dry humor from the other side feels like a cosmic wink, doesn’t it? They drop truth like breadcrumbs and watch us trip over them with style. Personally, I’d take that over forced small talk and dodgy punchlines any day!
        🧡

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      3. Indeed it does feel like a wee bit of a wink.

        Same here; I’m not much for small-talk. I know it greases the wheels, but….eesh… what are they doing that needs so much grease?

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      4. Exactly! I always wonder if they’re running some sort of emotional machinery behind the scenes that needs constant lubrication. Meanwhile, I’m over here trying to keep it real with minimal squeaking. A wink and a raised eyebrow go a lot further in my world than ten minutes of weather chat. 😄🧡

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      5. Nudge nudge. Wink wink. 😂

        Sorry all of the winks got me to thinking about that skit about wanting to small talk but not quite finding the gumption due to the subject matter of that small talk.

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      6. I say bring on the small talk with a side of dry humor and a knowing wink, at least then we all know we’re in on the same ridiculous cosmic joke. 😉
        🧡

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      7. And what a joke it is.

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      8. Isn’t it, though? But somehow, we’re all still here, laughing through the chaos. 🧡

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