The Art of Wasting Time…

Daily Writing Prompt? How do you waste the most time every day?

This is a deceptively tricky question because it depends on how you define wasted.

They say time is precious, but who decides how it should be spent? Reflect on what others might call ‘wasting time’ in your day. Is it wasted if it gives you peace, sparks a thought, or simply lets you be? What about the things you do that don’t fit the productivity narrative but feel necessary for your soul. What if the real waste is forcing yourself to follow a script someone else wrote?

If you go by the standards I was raised with, the old-school, country-bred, clock-watching, don’t sit idle too long or someone will hand you a broom kind of thinking, then yes, I waste a shocking amount of time. I sit outside watching clouds move. I watch the trees lean in the breeze and guess which one will drop a leaf next. I listen to birds, and not in a “how productive of me to connect with nature” way, but in a “I can’t be arsed to move right now” kind of way. I daydream. I remember old conversations and imagine how they should have gone. I laugh at myself. I scroll through photos of my dog who’s long gone and still manage to have a little word with him, like he can hear me.

Some might say my worst offense is thinking. I spend too much time in my head, dissecting, remembering, imagining, replaying, creating new versions of old moments. I waste time wondering why people did what they did, what makes them tick, and why they can’t just be decent. But is it wasted, or is it healing in disguise? Is it wasted, or am I picking old splinters out of my soul before they fester?

I’m supposed to be doing “something” all the time. Something visible. Something that can be listed or tallied up at the end of the day. But my kind of “something” is harder to measure. I sit still. I listen to the house breathe. I let the past pull up a chair. I waste time choosing which shade of the sky I like best. And somehow, by bedtime, I feel a little lighter.

So maybe time isn’t wasted if it brings you back to yourself. Maybe it’s only wasted when you spend it doing things that grind your spirit down or make you feel smaller. Maybe the biggest waste is chasing expectations that were never meant for you in the first place.

I don’t believe in wasted time anymore. Not if it makes me feel human. Not if it lets me remember who I am under the noise.

So today, I’ll waste a little more. For me.

Tony’s Blog Ingliando


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25 responses to “The Art of Wasting Time…”

  1. I also say so.

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    1. 👍 Amen to that ..

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  2. I do a little too much of this kind of wasting time too. The daydreams are so enjoyable 😀.

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    1. Sometimes those little daydream detours are the best part of the day! I figure, if it makes you smile or takes you somewhere peaceful for a while, it’s time well spent. 😊
      Thank you for your comment 🧡

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      1. I agree… you’re welcome 😊

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  3. I am with you.

    Very well written.

    I wanted to write the same thoughts.

    But not anymore.

    You’ve said it.

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    1. Thank you so much — that really means a lot. I’m glad the words found their way out and landed with you too. Sometimes it’s enough to know someone else gets it. 🧡

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  4. I waste most of my time with blogging. But it doesn’t matter as I have enough time and I don’t need to be productive anymore. A couple of months ago I wasted my time by blogging about a similar topic

    Of Unuseful Life


    Klausbernd :-)

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    1. Hi Klausbernd,
      Haha, I love that you’re owning the blogging time-sink. It’s definitely a rabbit hole for me, sometimes! Whether you’re joking about not needing to be productive or just rolling with it, I’m intrigued. I checked out your link (thanks for sharing!). Maybe we’re all just overthinking our way to greatness?
      Mae 😊

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  5. 🔥 fire this is so true !!! So the thing i learned today is if I am feeling good by wasting time,then I am not wasting it . Just wow .

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    1. Absolutely…
      Mae 🧡

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  6. I waste a lot of time in the “classroom of silence.” It’s exhilarating!

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    1. Love this! Honestly, the classroom of silence might be the most valuable one we ever sit in. No noisy opinions, no endless to-do lists — just you, your thoughts, and the universe quietly passing notes under the desk. Exhilarating is right. Stay enrolled!
      Mae 🧡

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  7. Loved this:

    Is it wasted if it gives you peace, sparks a thought, or simply lets you be? What about the things you do that don’t fit the productivity narrative but feel necessary for your soul.

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    1. Thank you 🧡

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  8. This narrative is a great method to fight the “tyranny of the urgent” which can envelop us all and distract from important time to contemplate and appreciate God’s creation.

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    1. Sometimes I think the best rebellion these days is to slow down, pay attention, and remember we’re part of something bigger than the next notification. And you’re right, creation has a way of reminding us what truly matters, if we’ll just stop long enough to notice.
      🧡

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    2. Ah, I love how you’ve put that, the tyranny of the urgent. That’s exactly it. We get so caught up in the noise and nonsense of what feels pressing in the moment, we forget to stop, breathe, and actually notice the beauty around us. The quiet things, the small moments. I’m trying to get better at that myself. Thank you for this, really appreciate your words.
      🧡

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    3. Yes, exactly that. It’s far too easy to get swept up in the noise of everything shouting for our attention and forget the things that actually feed the soul. I’m a firm believer that we need those quiet pauses to reconnect, reflect, and remember there’s more to life than ticking boxes. Thank you for putting it so beautifully.

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  9. Hi Mae, I’ve just found your blog and am really enjoying it. I’ve passed the link on to my sister as well. I run a blog for Italian students of English and would love to repost this article as a reading and conversation exercise if you would be okay with that. Obviously I would provide a clear link back to your blog for anyone interested in following up with further reading. I might even consider adding a soundtrack if you would be okay with that, too. :)

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    1. Hi there Tony! Thank you so much, I’m glad that you’re enjoying the blog, and how lovely of you to share it with your sister too. I’d be honored for you to use the article as a reading and conversation exercise for your students. That sounds like a fantastic idea. A link back is more than enough, and I’m totally fine with you adding a soundtrack as well if you feel it adds to the experience. Let me know what music you have in mind. I’d love to see how you use it.
      Mae 🧡

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      1. Mae, sorry, I gave the wrong impression with the word “soundtrack”. What I meant was a reading of the text so that students can use it as a listening exercise before actually reading the text. This is really useful for them as ‘listening’ is the one skill that they always need more practice with.

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      2. No worries at all Tony, thanks for clarifying! That makes perfect sense, and I think it’s a wonderful idea. You’re more than welcome to record a reading of the text for your students. I’m really glad the piece resonated, and I’m delighted it might be useful in that way. 🧡

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      3. That’s great. Thank you so much. I’ll let you know when I get the opportunity to do it. 😀

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      4. You’re very welcome! 😀
        Looking forward to hearing how it goes!
        Mae 🧡

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