Tag: relationships

  • No Room in My Head for Rent-Free Tenants…

    Now, by all rights, I should be! I’ve got a zillion reasons stacked up like family drama at a Christmas dinner, and every single one of them would give me the right to slam a door, curse a name, or carry a chip on my shoulder the size of a mountain. But here’s the thing:…

  • The Leap from “What If” to “What’s Next”…

    What If the Like-Minded United?… Sometimes I sit and wonder, what if all the people who actually see the world for what it really is came together? Not the ones glued to the headlines, not the ones hypnotized by the latest celebrity scandal, but the ones who sense, deep down, that something is off. Those…

  • Why ‘Me’ Needs a Holiday…

    The Most Overused Word? If I had to pick a word that’s overused these days, I’d say “me.”Not because the letters offend me, or because I want to erase individuality, but because “me” has become the gravitational center of far too many conversations, posts, and decisions. We live in an era where “me” gets first,…

  • The Me You Can’t See…

    Daily Writing Prompt: How would you describe yourself to someone who can’t see you? Funny how this prompt feels like déjà vu, just a different spin on the one from a few days ago: How would you describe yourself to someone? Since we’re on WordPress and mostly connect through words and screens anyway, I guess…

  • Traditions I Didn’t Keep (and Some I Quietly Did)…

    Daily Writing Prompt: What traditions have you not kept that your parents had? At first, I thought, none! I haven’t let go of any traditions. I’m a keeper of the old flame, aren’t I? But the more I sat with it, the more that answer started to shift. Maybe it’s not about all traditions. Maybe…

  • When the Narcissist Rewrites Your Story…

    When They Lie About You: Smear Campaigns and the Narcissist’s Need to Win… There are few things more destabilizing than realizing someone you once trusted is lying about you. Not just little lies, but full-blown character assassination. If you’ve ever been the target of a narcissist’s smear campaign, you know exactly what I mean. It’s…

  • Hindsight is the Foresight of a Gobshite…

    You ever notice how some people are absolute experts on your life after the fact? You could be standing in the smouldering ruins of a disaster of epic proportions, be it a relationship, a job, a family feud, or one of those “Sure, it seemed like a good idea at the time” moments, and there’s…

  • A Field Full of Sheep and Me…

    I wasn’t planning to write this today.But you know how those daily writing prompts sneak up on you? Today’s question is, “What bothers you and why?”, and well… turns out the writing prompt works. Who knew? 😂 It got me thinking more about the things that used to bother me, the things I’ve let go…

  • Romance? Ah Jaysus, Spare Me…

    Daily Writing Prompt: What’s your definition of romantic? Oh, here we go, another bloody programmed concept designed to keep people chasing shadows. I actually hate this one. The word “romantic” makes me twitch. Not because I’m cold or cynical, but because it’s one of those old hand-me-down ideas we’ve all been spoon-fed since we were…

  • Episode 87 – Bully Watch…

    Bully Watch… When They Don’t Talk to You… But Talk About You… Ever notice how some people don’t actually speak to you, but have plenty to say about you? There’s a certain breed of drama farmer who thrives on indirect communication. They won’t call, won’t text, won’t answer your emails, but suddenly your neighbor knows…