Tag: family
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Confessions of a Failed Nurse and Future Rebel…
The Ones Who Didn’t Fit the Box… When I was growing up in Ireland and I won’t say how many years ago because some of you might faint, it was a very different world to the one we’re in now. Back then, every family had a few solid ambitions for their children. You didn’t need…
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I Asked for a Day, They Offered Me the Door…
Families have a way of shaping the truth to suit themselves. Sometimes it’s subtle. Other times it’s right there in front of you, dressed up as kindness, practicality or ‘what’s best for everyone’. And over time, you start to realize that what looks like help is often just a polite way of saying we’d prefer…
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Episode 52 – Heff & Huff
Heff, Hutt & the Inheritance of Dog Biscuits After Dad passed, the will was read, the turf was turned and the drama rolled in faster than a storm over Faurel Hill. But you know what no one fought over?The dogs. That’s right. Heff and Hutt. Dad’s loyal sidekicks, his four-legged farmhands (and before that my…
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Episode 45 – Granny Frass’s Golden Rule…
Granny Frass’s Golden Rule: Blood is Thicker Than Bank Accounts. You know, back in Granny Frass’s day, family wasn’t something you negotiated with. It wasn’t a transaction or a competition. It was a given. You were born into the tribe and that meant you belonged. For better or worse. Granny Frass didn’t just raise her…
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He Did His Best…
Today I found myself lost in old photographs of my dad. I wasn’t looking for anything in particular but what I found was the ache of missing him. In those images, he looked strong. Protective. Present. He stood between me and the chaos more than I realized at the time. He shielded me from Bully…
