Hold the Menu, Pass the Memories…

Daily writing prompt
What’s the most money you’ve ever spent on a meal? Was it worth it?

Oh, I’ve definitely thrown stupid money at meals in the past, especially when I lived in the States. Back then, it was dinner out every weekend. Starters, mains, cocktails with far too much garnish, and desserts we didn’t need but ordered anyway “for the table.”

Was it worth it? Well… I can’t remember a single dish. Not one. But I do remember the people, or at least the stories that went with them. Bad dates, great friends, too many laughs, and the occasional dramatic exit (not mine, I swear). It wasn’t about the food. It was about being present, being seen, or sometimes just pretending we were fancy when we absolutely were not.

Nowadays? Nah. I’d rather not. I look at restaurant prices and think, “For that, I could pay my electricity, feed myself for a week, and still have enough left over for a bottle of wine and a bar of chocolate.”

Give me a homemade meal, a comfy chair, and someone decent to talk to. No bill shock, no forced small talk, and I can eat in my pajamas. Heaven.


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31 responses to “Hold the Menu, Pass the Memories…”

  1. Joey Jones Avatar
    Joey Jones

    Oh yes…

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  2. Hmmm…. perspective changes with time. In younger days making an impression is the in thing. With age all that becomes inconsequential.

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    1. Absolutely Geeta. It’s wild how the things we once chased seem so small in the rear-view mirror. These days, peace, truth, and good tea feel far more impressive than applause ever did 🧡

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  3. I think as a child I used to like eating out in restaurants. It made me feel grown-up. Once I started having to earn my own keep, that quickly changed.

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    1. I have to agree with you there, Tony! Totally get that! There’s something magical about restaurants when you’re a kid, like stepping into a world where you’re fancy by default. I never got to eat out much as a kid. I grew up on a farm where we grew a lot of our food. I still think that homegrown food beats any restaurant, especially in these times. And I most certainly don’t want to scan a menu like it’s a math exam and wondering if bread rolls count as dinner.😂🧡

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      1. Ah-ha! Looking for something remotely appetising that doesn’t cost the earth!

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  4. I have a story about when neighbors came and ate with us. We were all poor, but we didn’t know it and just enjoyed the company as we poured through days of beans, cornbread, picked fruit and koolaid! I miss your those meals!

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    1. What a beautiful memory, the kind that tastes better than anything money could buy. There’s something magical about those humble meals shared in good company, where no one’s counting coins because they’re too busy laughing and passing the cornbread. It’s funny how we didn’t even know we were “poor”, we just thought we were living. And in many ways, we were far richer than we knew.

      I miss those kinds of meals, too. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your story.
      Mae 🧡

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      1. Thank you for sharing that 🧡

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  5. I can count on one hand the memorable meals I have had in restaurants. They are wonderful memories and I’ve blogged about them.

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    1. I will have too read them Peggy 🧡

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  6. Being the resident chef at home, I tend to see my infrequent forays into dining out as necessary breaks in the routine. But it has gotten to be so expensive, especially with the gratuity leaping from “pay what you feel the service was worth” to an expected (or obligatory at some restaurants) 20% or more, I often have a hard time justifying eating out even at modest venues.

    One meal that still sticks in my mind was a dish of risotto followed by a chocolate torte for desert. I paid far too much for what I got, but it seemed well worth it at the time. I can’t imagine feeling the same if I had the equivalent experience today.

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    1. I completely get that, Michael. Dining out used to feel like a treat, a little escape from the everyday. Now it feels like a budget negotiation with a side of guilt!

      That risotto and chocolate torte might’ve been overpriced, but if it fed something more than just your stomach at the time, maybe it was worth it. These days, though? Harder to justify. We don’t even do tipping in Ireland, and the prices are still outrageous! Makes you question whether the break from cooking is worth the financial indigestion.😂😂🧡

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      1. And, more often than not, I end up regretting spending as much on a single meal as what would pay for three or four days worth of home-cooked food. It’s a sad state of affairs…

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      2. Michael, if I had all the money I spent on eating and drinking out, I could own a villa in the South of France. 😂
        But no point in regrets. It is a sad state of affairs when one restaurant meal costs the same as nearly a week’s worth of groceries. And half the time, it’s not even that good! There’s something deeply satisfying about those simple, home-cooked meals and the intention and love folded into them. 🧡

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      3. Most definitely 💙

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  7. Hi! Wow thanks so much for subscribing 😀😀😀 you have a great blog 😀

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    1. Your welcome Anna and thank you for the compliment.🧡

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  8. I Agree entirely,….and yes, total heaven ,….💫

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    1. Thanks Penny🧡

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  9. Sure have a great day 😀

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  10. Oh, me too. It is so much more enjoyable with a homemade meal a comfy chair and in my pajamas if I so choose. Not to mention a whole lot cheaper;

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    1. 100% Mags 🧡

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  11. Dear Mae
    I feel great satisfaction after reading your post.
    This post satisfied me in the same manner.
    Thanks for liking my post, ‘Shriram’🙏❤️

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    1. Thank you and you are so welcome 🧡

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  12. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    Oh, I hear you 😂 The most I ever spent for just us was what I thought would be a “cheap and simple” trip to Red Robin. 4 burgers, endless fries, 4 drinks… 💸 almost $80 !!! I stared at the bill, spotted the exit sign, and wondered how fast we could all run 🏃‍♂️🍔🍟🥤

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    1. 😂 Ohhh, I’ve been there, Willie! You go in thinking “quick bite” and leave feeling like you should’ve taken out a small loan. At least the fries were endless and helped cushion the blow!

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      1. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
        Willie Torres Jr.

        Haven’t been there since, and that was about 10 plus years ago

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      2. 😂😂😂

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