Episode 32 -What’s Wrong with Bullies?

What’s Wrong with Bullies? A Diagnostic Guesswork Guide.

From trauma to entity possession, we examine the possible sources of Bully Behavior – with absolutely no medical training but plenty of lived experience.

Have you ever stared at a bully mid-tantrum and thought, ‘What unholy force powers this eejit?’ You’re not alone. Whether they’re hogging the inheritance, guarding the garden gate like Cerberus or trying to gaslight you into thinking you stole their boundaries, bullies are a curious breed.

Let’s investigate:

1. Childhood Trauma (Now Available in Repackaged Adult Rage).

Maybe they weren’t hugged enough. Or too much. Either way, instead of healing, they now distribute drama like it’s free turf at a wake. Their pain is real but so is your exhaustion.

2. Entity Attachment.

Some say demons left Ireland in the 1800s. Others say they found new homes inside entitled cousins and dodgy executors. These spirits whisper: ‘You deserve everything. Even the bit that’s not yours. Especially that’.

3. The Control Freak Olympics.

Bullying isn’t random – it’s a sport. And your peace of mind is the playing field. Events include: Competitive Key-Holding, Boundary Pole Vaulting, Passive-Aggressive Power-lifting. Bonus points if they use phrases like ‘I’m just trying to help’.

4. Emotional Flatulence.

Unprocessed feelings ferment into toxic output. You’re just caught in the blast radius. Top tip: Keep metaphorical air freshener nearby. Lavender works. Or a good solicitor.

5. Born with a Bossy Bone.

Some folks just pop out preloaded with orders. By five they were managing the playground. By fifty they’re installing surveillance cameras on sheds they don’t own yet. Family motto: ‘What’s yours is mine. What’s mine is still mine’.

The Faurel Hill Theory.

In some cases (naming no names), a person becomes so allergic to fairness that they spiral anytime someone else finds peace. Especially if that peace involves turf, boots or a quiet evening. Diagnosis? Chronic Equality Aversion. Not yet listed in medical journals but heavily documented in Ireland.

In Conclusion:

So what is wrong with bullies? Could be trauma. Could be ego. Could be a ghost called Eileen from 1892 who once lost half an acre to a cousin and never got over it. But one thing’s for sure: It’s not you. It’s them. And their very haunted boundaries.

Lesson of the Day: Just because someone acts possessed doesn’t mean you have to offer them a room in your head. Recognize the chaos, name it with humor and return to your turf pile in peace.